If you suspect your man is cheating on you, you are probably correct in your assumption. It only becomes a problem when he will not be honest with you about his affair and you are not confident enough in your assumptions to break off the relationship. That’s when you have to get crafty and do a little bit of investigating on your own in order to catch a man cheating.
As strange as it may be to have to follow someone around and snoop on them you have every right to try to catch him cheating if a monogamous commitment was made and you are feeling that he is having an affair. I won’t even mention the diseases floating around nowadays and the potential of him bringing home some fine viral infection as a present. I’ve posted my proven (unfortunately) techniques to help you to get to the bottom of things. I hope they help you in your quest to find a little honesty in your relationship.
How do I catch him cheating?
1. Randomize your schedule. Show up at his work unexpectedly for a “missed you” visit. Leave for scheduled trips early and return home to grab something you “forgot”. Note any shock you may cause by this randomization or any other oddities you may unexpectedly stumble over while being so “random”.
2. When he gets home give him a big “missed you” hug. Note any strange odors that may be present such as perfume or the smell of sex. Take a good look at him and note any obvious signs such as lipstick or hickies (eww).
3. Check for dirty laundry! Yep, that’s right. Go through his dirty clothing. Check through his pockets for any indicators of foul play such as receipts, phone numbers etc. Give his underwear a good sniff. Do they smell like sex?
4. Check for unusual phone numbers. Check the phone records and his cell phone for unusual phone numbers. See if he’s calling one of your girlfriends. If you suddenly see a strange number appearing frequently google it and see if it comes up with a name. If you can’t find the phones owner by googling it, spend a few bucks and do a paid reverse phone directory search.
5. Be snoopy. When he’s not around rummage around through his bags, pockets, the trash cans, drawers, any standard place where things tend accumulate and be forgotten. Look for anything strange such as movie ticket stubs, condom wrappers, parking receipts, phone numbers, hotel receipts or dining receipts.
6. Men who are having an affair often try to hide there activities by using text messaging. They believe that they can just click “delete” and everything is erased. Wrong, deleted text messages are stored on the phones sim card for some time after deletion. Recover and read deleted SMS (text) messages using a sim card spy. This could give you some excellent insight indeed!
7. When men have affairs, they have to start spending money. So become an expert on your finances. If they’re not shared, you’re going to have to start snooping through pockets for receipts. If he says he’s doing a lot more work on the car, and your finances are shared, ask for receipts.
8. Does he spend a lot of private time on the computer? He could very well be chatting with his accomplice online. Those conversations could be a goldmine of information for you. You could download the readily available key logging software that everyone is pushing but it is easily detected as a process on the computer. I would recommend purchasing a hardware key logging device. With a USB keylogger you simply plug it in between the keyboard and the computer and you will have every word (including logins and passwords) captured so that you can return to it at your leisure and find the “good stuff”. How often do people check the back of their computers?
9. You could always follow him around to see where he goes but, this can be a huge pain in the rear and you probably aren’t Mrs. Smith either. Do the smart thing and put a GPS tracking device on his vehicle. A tracking device will enable you to watch his vehicle movement online and in real time. Implementing this tool could provide you with all the information you could ever need. You would be surprised, the costs involved have become very reasonable as technology is filtering down to the public.
10. As odd as this may sound you can actually check for the presence of semen in his underwear! If he has semen present in his underwear and you haven’t had sex with him for a couple of days or so, something is wrong.
A semen detection kit only takes a few minutes to use and gives lab quality results.
You should have no problem confirming any doubts that you may have using the tips provided above. If you finally nail it down and are able to catch him cheating go out and do some things to make you feel better about yourself. Get your hair done, nails done, do some tanning or some shopping. Whatever it takes. Make him regret what he’s done by looking as hot as possible and feeling as great as you can about yourself.
May 28th, 2008 at 4:27 am
Great tips, thanks.
May 29th, 2008 at 5:39 am
FANTASTIC!!!
June 10th, 2008 at 5:34 pm
Here are my few points.
Signs of a Cheating Husband
1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s home.
9) You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.
July 20th, 2008 at 3:58 pm
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